How to Blog

5 Quick Tips How To Revive A Dying Blog (Hint: I’m Using #5 Right Now)

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It’s time for a mea culpa here.  

Bless me, for I have committed one of the cardinal sins of blogging.  

I’m an inconsistent blogger. 

And what makes that even more embarrassing is that just the other day, I wrote a halfway decent post (I think) about blogging consistency over at Social Solutions Collective.


It’s the classic what not to do for someone using a blog to build a business, I might add.  If you want to earn money consistently, your blog (aka your online storefront) has to be fresh and up to date (aka have new content regularly).  Otherwise, you risk angering That Large Search Engine Which Shall Not Be Named, not to mention that you just don’t look as relevant to the people who manage to stumble upon your website.

It’s not as if I’ve been sitting around eating bon bons.  For starters, I don’t even like bon bons.  But in all seriousness, I’ve found myself busy with client work and the work of raising 4 wonderful small children ages 9 to 1 while their daddy, aka my husband, has been off saving the world courtesy of his work with NASA and the US Air Force Reserve.  I’m not sure if I’d call it that I have any kind of balance; most days it feels like I’m juggling chainsaws.

(I know, for other work from home moms who manage to keep up with blogs, that sounds like an excuse.)

But when I’m immersed in kid learning and not making sure I read or listen to something to keep myself learning, admittedly, it’s really, really hard to pull a meaningful blog post out of nowhere.

What can I say… it’s almost Lent, and I’m feeling all introspective and stuff.

Forgive me.

But I know I’m not the only one who has to figure out how to come back from the blogging dead, so to speak. I know there are other bloggers who have started with the best of intentions, only to become one of the vast majority of blogs that fizzle out due to lack of fresh content.

It doesn’t have to be that way. Just because you’ve had a lapse in posting doesn’t mean you have to give up on your website entirely.

Really, if you look at the number of large businesses out there that manage to stay alive without fresh content regularly, you’d see it’s entirely possible. Here’s how to revive a dying blog.

How to Breathe New Life Into Your Dying Blog

1.  Time for a vision check

No, don’t go hauling out your phone and calling your eye doctor (unless your visual issues really are interfering with your content production).  By vision check, I mean, it’s time to give your website a little tough love.

Is the reason you’re having trouble being regular with your content because your focus is too wide or too narrow?

Do you know what value you bring to your readers?  Do you know what action you want them to take (becoming subscribers or customers)?  Does your blog speak clearly to your ideal customer?

If you’re having difficulty blogging, it could be because you’re not 100% clear on the value you provide for your readers.  Get clear on the vision for your blog, and you might find that your stubborn case of writer’s block clears up nicely.

2.  Commit to blog regularly

It sounds simplistic, but one of the best things you can do to jump start your blog is to make the mindset shift that blogging isn’t a negotiable item.  Decide how often you’re going to post and make a commitment.  Write it on your calendar.  Just like you wouldn’t accept a job and then not show up, this isn’t up for debate.  If you are serious about choosing to restart your blog, make that choice.  Say it out loud.  Tell people you meet, “I am a blogger.”   As my writing professor used to say, “a writer is one who writes.”  Well, a blogger is one who blogs.  Period.

3. Feed your brain

Writer’s block is one of the hardest hurdles to overcome as a blogger.  I get it.

But every time I mentally “go there,” I can hear the aforementioned writing professor’s voice declaring that “writer’s block is another word for laziness.”


But I think he’s right.  I’m sure he’ll be relieved that I finally gave him my approval.

If I can’t think of what to write, it’s because I haven’t somehow given my mind enough quality content to interact with.  (Ideas do not come out of a vacuum. It’s a metaphysical law or something like that.)

The key to avoiding writer’s block is to feed your mind quality content on a regular basis, and give yourself time to think it over before sitting down to write.

4. Plan your content

One of the ways you can make starting a post easier is to have a content calendar.  A content calendar is nothing more than a plan for your blog content.  There are a ton of great templates out there.  

That said, ideally, your content calendar includes your social media content so that you can deliver a more focused, consistent message between your website and your social media postings.  (Your social media is nothing more than an avenue or channel for you to share the value of your brand…so it makes sense to have consistency between your web content and what you share on social media!) 

5.  Get started.

What time is it?

Writing time.  Not research time.

Plan when you will write.  Make it a date with yourself.  Sit down (unless you use one of thosecool standing desks).

And then write.

When you sit down to write needs to be writing time.  If you need to do some research for your blog, do so at another time.  (See point above about reading in your niche and then letting it percolate a while in your mind.)

I know a lot of people are going to resist this. But what I’m encouraging you to do is to make sure that you have as few ways as possible to distract yourself (in the name of “research” ) while you write.

Turn off social media and email.

Really, they’ll wait.

Unless you choose to outsource, this is the step where the rubber meets the road.  But if you’ve completed the steps above, I promise, it won’t be as painful as you might think.

Need MORE creative ideas to get out of your rut and Revive Your Blog?  Click here to receive my checklist: Revive Your Blog created just for you!

How to Write A Good Meta Description

how to write an effective meta descriptionThe other day, a friend of mine posted a link to an article that really got my blood boiling.

The link pointed to a piece from Mother Jones that had to do with the number of golf courses operated by the Department of Defense. The blurb included the number of courses and the US Golf Association’s estimate about the cost to maintain golf courses.

Like I said, it got my blood boiling.  As a military spouse, I know there are some pretty crummy locations for DoD personnel to be sent. While I think golf is one of the more boring sports out there (and I even went to the same elementary school as did Phil Mickelson), I realize it’s a favorite pastime of many people.  So – it seems a worthwhile form of recreation to have on military installations, especially since the courses are nearly self supporting.  Most young enlisted troops wouldn’t be able to afford to play at public courses, so it seems especially appropriate to have a low cost form of exercise and fun.

So – contrary to the efforts of the folks at Mother Jones to get me all hot and bothered about how much it costs to run golf courses for the Department of Defense, I can’t say that I give a flying leap about it. Instead I found myself rather irked that they would write such an article at all.

But – the description did what it supposed to. It got me to read an article I otherwise would have glossed over.

How can you use the decidedly unglamorous meta description to get more targeted traffic on your article?

How to Write an Effective Meta Description

1. Use your keywords in an intelligent manner

This means – yes, use your keyword in a way that is contextually appropriate. And no, do not stuff your keyword into the meta description ad nauseum.  Once is nearly more than sufficient, thanks to Google’s algorithm tweaks.

2. Make your meta description compelling

This is where the money meets the road. Using your keyword in your meta description for SEO purposes only gets people to potentially see your content in a search engine results page (SERP).  Google and other search engines also bold your keyword in the search engine results pages, so it really is a best practice to include your keyword in a tasteful, value-added way. However – once they see your article blurb, they have to click on it, otherwise all the SEO in the world is pointless.

Getting people to actually click on your post and read it is a result of your superior writing skills (effective SEO copywriting, really).  Your meta description needs to make it clear why someone would want to click on your content rather than the thousands of others that likely came up as the result of someone’s search.

One way to write a meta description that encourages readers to click through is to ask a specific question and then let readers know you’ll answer that question in your content.

For example, ‘Need to know how to write an effective meta description? Get the tips you need to create highly compelling meta descriptions for your blog content’  could be a great meta description for a post such as this one.

Writing Killer Meta Descriptions –  Quick Tips

  • Use keywords in an effective manner
  • Don’t keyword stuff
  • Use effective copywriting techniques to encourage click throughs
  • Give your readers the specific benefit they’ll get from reading your content

What are your tips for an effective Meta Description?  Leave a comment below!

How Google Plus Can Boost Your Blog’s Visibility

Google Plus might be the most important social media platform that has ever existed.

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Bold statement, right?  Especially since so many people aren’t using it!

But here’s the thing. Because of the way Google Plus is set up, this powerful social network has the power to give your blog more visibility than any of the other networks out there. And if you’re not leveraging its abilities, you are missing out on traffic from a number of sources, not just straight from Google.

Here’s how Google Plus can boost your visibility as a blogger.

Google Plus Authorship

Google Plus lets you connect your blog (Blogger or WordPress) with your Google profile. This is easily set up with a plugin.  This helps you a few ways.  For starters – you get an SEO boost when Google “sees” all of your content across the web that’s connected with your Google Plus profile. If this content is related in topic and theme, it starts to build your authority and relevance for that topic. Over time, this will move you up on search engine results.  Of course you must make sure your content is worth reading, too, otherwise you won’t get much of a benefit. People have to both find and read your content for SEO to help you.

Google Plus Communities

Google Plus became a much more interactive platform with the addition of Communities, and it’s a super easy way to connect with, learn from, and share information with people in your niche.  Search Google Plus for Communities related to your field – or get adventurous and start your own!  Note – if you start your own, you’ll want to stay involved with it. It doesn’t make you look like a thought leader if you’re never around to facilitate conversation in your community!

Google Plus +1 Social Proof

Just like the “Like” on Facebook or “Retweeting” or “Sharing” on Twitter, the benefits of social proof when people +1 your content can’t be overlooked.  Of course when other people see your content has been shared this way, it gives you the strength that other people’s approval grants. However – it’s also important because it’s also a signal that Google takes into consideration when delivering search engine results. If your content has a high number of shares, Google will naturally “see” it as more relevant and authoritative in your field. And this will give you stronger search engine rankings for your topics.

Speaking of Google…

Google Plus is important for bloggers for one key reason: It’s Google.  Like it or not, the name Google has become synonymous with search. And Google continues to favor Google-owned properties in search engine results. Once your blog is set up with Google Plus Authorship and connected to your Google profile, you will get the biggest boost in SEO if you are an active member of the Google Plus community and add content that is relevant and valuable to people searching for great content in your field.

QUESTION: What’s your Google Plus username? Leave a link below and let’s connect!

How to Get More Targeted Traffic To Your Website

All Website Traffic is Not Created Equal

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Have you seen people on forums and in Facebook groups asking about how to get more website traffic? It’s almost funny to watch them, but wow, they can be pretty aggressive!

Don’t get me wrong – having website visitors is critical if you’re using the internet to market your business online. But I just have to say – it’s important to keep in mind that not all website traffic is useful to you!

Here’s what I mean. If I have 1000 people visit my website in a week, that might sound great. But if they’re looking for someone who does article spinning those 1000 people aren’t going to benefit my business one bit – that’s not part of my business model.

But if I have 10 new visitors this week who are interested in outsourcing the development of their coaching program materials, then these 10 visitors are exactly the kind of customer I love, and they’re going to benefit my business far more than the 1000 random people would.

Make sense?

When you want to attract more traffic to your website you want a specific kind of traffic. You want targeted traffic. If you just get any old kind of traffic through some sort of service you may not end up with the traffic that counts..the kind of traffic ready to read your articles, sign up for your mailing list and buy your products.

Are you wondering how you get that kind of targeted traffic to your website? Here are five sure-fire ways to get more targeted website traffic.

How to Get More Targeted Traffic To Your Website

1.  Fill Your Website with High Quality Targeted Content

I harp on this a lot, but it’s super important. Targeted content can be blog posts, articles, comments, forum posts, and even photographs and products that your market would enjoy. Of course anything that you put on your website should contain the right keywords within the descriptions, text, and alt tags. If you use a website building software such as you can ensure you have all the right search engine optimization done easily.

2.  Write Articles and Blog Posts that Speak to Your Market

You should know exactly who your audience is. What is their age group? What sex are they? What are their hopes, dreams and fears? What solutions can you provide them? What words can you use to attract them, keep them, and motivate them to act in the way that you want them to act? Know the keywords, lingo and acronyms that are common within your niche so that you can use them in all of your content.

3.  Offer Products and Services that Fill Your Audience’s Need(s)

If you have a website that is targeted to business owners who are bookkeepers, it would not make sense to offer them products or services that are directed toward spa owners. Be very specific about what you are offering them and do not stray from your market no matter how tempting it can be to sell a high commission product. It simply won’t work. They want you to offer them products and services that solve their issues for the topic you are claiming expertise in.


4.  Offer Freebies with a Twist


Don’t just give away free things on your website. Rather give away something of value to your visitors in exchange for something such as their email address and permission to communicate with them via email.  When you give them the freebie ensure that it always includes some sort of  offer  to pass on what they have gotten to others who they feel will be interested. This will further encourage like minded visitors to come to your website therefore gaining even more targeted website traffic.

5.  Always Have a Call To Action

In every blog post, every email, ever freebie, every eBook, every eReport and every other product or service that you offer should always have an additional call to action. Whether it is an invitation to comment on your blog posts, or submit a testimonial, or to do something else entirely, it is important to always ask for interaction of some kind from your website visitors. Not only will that create a situation where the visitor comes back, but if you’re interesting enough they might invite others that they know.

QUESTION:  Do you have all the targeted traffic you can stand, or are you interested in learning more ways to boost your traffic, loyal readers, and paying customers? Leave a comment below!

SEO Content Writing for Businesses: The Great Blogging Hoax

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Opinions about SEO content writing are a dime a dozen these days – everyone’s got one. (And, like a related saying, most of them stink.)  Seriously, though, just because anyone can blog doesn’t mean that anyone should, much less that they should dispense wisdom about how to blog.

But because they do, there are a number of myths about blogging that persist. Have you fallen for the great blogging hoax?  Check out these myths that need to be refuted now!

SEO Content Writing for Businesses: 5 Blog Myths Busted!

1.  Google isn’t your only reason to blog.

It’s easy to get in the habit of thinking that you’re only blogging for Google and other search engine traffic.  And while yes, you want your ideal customer to be able to find your products or services if you can truly help them, the simple act of scoring well on search shouldn’t be the only reason you’re doing SEO content writing!

You should be blogging if you can create value for the people who need you. And you should be blogging if you can create that value in a way that makes people have a compulsive need to share your content.

On the other hand, if you’re just cranking out content ever few days or weeks just because you’re supposed to these days, please do us all a favor and stop. Because in that scenario – you’re wasting your time and money, along with ours.


2.  Some people can blog every day and it’s good. Other people blog every day and it’s hurting them.

This goes along with point number 1. You should only blog if you have something to say. You should not “find something to say” in order to have a blog. Make sense?

If you are able to create amazing content on a daily basis, some bloggers have experienced great results driving respectable amounts of profitable traffic by doing so.  I can’t say that it doesn’t work for some.

But on the other hand –  Jon Morrow over at Boost Blog Traffic  posted a guest post recently that says that daily posting actually hurts your traffic by decreasing the social proof possible on each post.  (There are a few other reasons listed too, and I have to say I agree with him) .

So – posting daily isn’t a part of my strategy, and I’m okay with that.  I’m guessing you’re busy enough that you don’t really want daily posts from me anyway.

3.  If your headline sucks, your article can’t save it.

A reminder for the new – the purpose of your headline isn’t to tell your readers what your article’s about. It’s not to prove to your readers that you’re a super clever author, either.

It’s to get your readers to read the first sentence.

And that first sentence? Yep. It’s to get them to read the next.

If all of those are written well, there’s a good chance they’ll keep reading, unless you bore the bloody hell out of them at some point, in which I can’t help you.

But if that headline sucks?

Kiss those carefully SEO-attracted readers goodbye.  And watch your bounce rates soar.

(Proven and profitable headline tips are often a subject of my weekly e-mails, incidentally)

4.  If your article sucks, your SEO can’t save it.

Okay, so you’ve written this article – and it’s mediocre at best. And then you carefully keyword it, putting in your title and meta tags, tagging your images, and sprinkling your carefully analyzed keyword phrase in like magical fairy dust so your article will rise to the top of Google search.

Even if that somehow happens, there’s just one problem. If your article sucks, no one is going to share it. And Google continues to look for ways to incorporate social signals in their ranking. If your articles aren’t shareworthy or worthy of peoples comments or likes, all of the traditional SEO in the world can’t save them.

5. If you write amazing content, Google’s Panda and Penguin are your friend. If not – watch out!

I think it’s funny to watch people freak out about Google’s Panda and Penguin updates, and here’s why. The team at Google isn’t really sitting around at a table with a perpetual agenda item where Matt Cutts starts by asking, “How can we screw the heck out of as many unsuspecting small business owners as we can today” in his best impersonation of Pinky and the Brain.

Google is continually refining its algorithm to find the best quality content – content that is engaging, authoritative, and relevant – and ensure that content is what appears at the top of search.  And they’re trying to make sure that the boring or crappy keyword-stuffed garbage is penalized and doesn’t see the light of day any more often than possible.  That’s all. So if you’re creating great content in your niche and your readers eagerly await it, comment upon it and share it – Panda and Penguin are 2 of the most loveable black and white creatures you’ll ever see.  You can even look forward to each new release.

Are there any myths I missed? Leave a comment below!

How to Write Blogs For Your Business: Keyword Research Demystified

One of the most important keys to learning how to write blogs for your business is doing keyword research. 

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Talking to other bloggers, I think it’s also one of the things that mystifies people the most.

Keyword research has a little bit of a bad reputation in some circles. For a while, less than credible SEO consultants were using keywords to try to game the system with Google, stuffing keywords here, there and everywhere in an attempt to rank better.

While that’s become more difficult in the post Panda and Penguin world, it doesn’t mean that keyword research is less important. Far from it.

What has happened is that the practice of choosing a good keyword needs to be paired with creating quality website content that people naturally want to read and forward.  Your keyword needs to be set within the context of quality content. Keyword rich content in a meaningful, share-worth context is the key to Google magic.

Which brings us back to the first part of that equation…keyword research.

What is Keyword Research

I was just about to write that it’s the process of researching your keywords to find out which ones are most likely to generate the most qualified traffic to your website. And then I remembered that I shouldn’t define a term by using the term.

Silly me.

But in a nutshell, that’s exactly what it is.

You don’t want just any traffic – you want people who are interested in what you have to say and what you have to sell (products or services). And when you’re trying to monetize, you don’t just want one vistor a month (though if it’s the right visitor and it’s something that’s pretty high-end, I suppose it could work).

How to Blog Effectively For Your Business:  Conducting Keyword Research

  1. Think from your customer’s perspective

This is probably the hardest thing to do when it comes to keyword research. You need to know how to think like your ideal customer to determine what query he or she might Google and expect to find a website like yours.

When someone comes up with your website in a set of results, is it going to help them answer the question they searched under? Will they be pleased to come across your website for that topic, or will they consider it a waste of time?

Are the people who are looking for your website and find it likely to be interested in exchanging money for your products or services?  Unless you’re running a nonprofit, you have to be honest when you answer this question. A few ways to check this might be to see how books on your topic rank in terms of sales at Amazon, or to see if you get any Google ads when you search for your topic.

2.     Use a keyword tool to look at demand for a possible keyword

One of the most popular and free keyword tools is Google’s keyword tool.  Enter a possible keyword phrase in the search box and see if it is a highly searched term or not.  To be as precise as possible, use exact match keywords with this tool.

3.     Compare the demand for a possible keyword with the number of sites that already exist for it. 

Knowing how easy it is to rank for a given keyword isn’t just about how many people search for it per month, it’s also about knowing how much competition you have.

Pat Flynn at Smart Passive Income has some great articles about keyword research – he has an interesting comment that he believes anyone can rank for any keyword – it’s just all about how many resources (time and money) you want to spend in the process.  If you’re just starting a business, you need to make money quickly, and you don’t have a lot of time or money to spend at the moment, it would be wiser to work with a keyword or words that don’t already have millions of websites trying to rank for those words.

Another website that has great in depth information about keyword research is Moz (used to be SEOMoz).  Actually, just about everything they have is fantastic, and I strongly recommend diving into their resources about SEO and content marketing.

How comfortable are you with keyword research?  Would it be helpful to have a template I use to keep my results organized?  Leave me a comment below!

How to Stay Motivated Even When You Feel Like Giving Up

Last week my family and I went camping for a week to celebrate my youngest daughter’s first birthday. I can’t believe that she’s already 1! It’s amazing to think how fast this year has flown by and how much she’s grown. It’s equally amazing to realize that it means I’ve been in business as a content marketer and blogger for a year. Truly – time does fly when you’re having fun, and working from home is a form of fun (and chaos) I wouldn’t trade for the world.

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I blogged about our trip a little bit a few days ago – it started with a bang. Literally. The door next to my second-youngest daughter – my 2 year old – received a rock through the window from a passing rock hauler. Glory to God, she was unharmed, and thanks to a fast acting insurance company, we were back in action in no time at all.

Apparently that set the tone for the entire trip!  The night we picked up the trailer to head to the campsite, both of the little ones were in the throes of teething molars, and we experienced some unusually low temperatures for the end of May. Translation: our 2 year old and our 1 year old were awake all night long.

Given that our final destination for our camping trip (the Northern California coast) was set to be even colder and more damp, we made the difficult decision to scrap the camping trip altogether. A few hasty phone calls later, we had a place to stay with friends who were delighted we’d called.

But between you and me, I felt like the world’s crummiest parent. I knew we’d made the right choice (to paraphrase a common saying, if a 1 year old and a 2 year old aren’t happy, ain’t nobody happy, right?)  But it felt like we’d completely let our kids down, along with blowing our 1 year old’s special birthday celebration.

Yep. I pretty much felt like giving up on the concept of having a fun family trip, and it had just begun.

But something amazing happened in the experience of being flexible and going with the flow.  At first our kids were totally bummed by the change in plans – we’d planned this trip for the past year. But when we explained where we were staying – and that yes, we’d still be able to roast marshmallows (the standard by which every campout is judged), they dove right in to the experience and had a blast with some friends they hadn’t seen in a year.

And this has since been judged The. Best. Family. Vacation. Ever.

When you’re working on building a successful business online, it can be tempting to give up when times get tough. Especially when you’ve worked on something for a long time and it doesn’t go anything like you’ve planned, staying motivated is tough.

The key to building a successful business online and staying motivated when things don’t go as you’ve planned is flexibility and a determination to find a way to keep on moving forward.

And the key to being able to be flexible is to have a plan and to know what your goals really are.

Sometimes when building a business – online or a brick and mortar business, you can get so caught up in the process you’re using to reach your goals that you forget that it’s just that – a process. It’s the vehicle that’s getting you from here to there. It’s not the goal itself.

When my family and I planned our camping adventure, the goal wasn’t really camping itself. It was to spend quality time together without the everyday distractions. It was to reconnect. And it was for each of us to refresh our souls.

By all accounts, even though our trip went nothing like we’d planned, it was a 100% success.

Question: How do you stay motivated when your business goes nothing like you’d planned? 

Leave a comment – I love hearing from you!

How To Write a GREAT Blog Post Using Stories

My brand new iPhone 5 (less than a week old) is sporting a new set of scratches on the back of it

Can you believe looking at those scratches makes me smile?

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This week my family and I are on the road to celebrate my youngest daughter’s first birthday. We decided to go camping at one of our favorite locations, Eureka, CA.

During the course of our drive, we passed many different kinds of cars and trucks, much to the delight of my 5 year old son who is a fanatic about naming the makes and models of each kind of vehicle we pass. We passed a variety of passenger vehicles, trucks carrying produce from one end of California to the other (lots of loads of garlic and onions), and trucks hauling gravel as well.

We had a full load in our own pickup, so we kept our speed moderate – 67 mph, to be precise, in an attempt to maintain the best fuel economy possible under the driving conditions we were in.

Of course not everyone likes to drive that slow, so on occasion we were passed by various vehicles.

One of the vehicles that passed us, a truck hauling gravel, had an unsecured load. And as luck would have it, upon passing us on the left, a rock bounced out of his load and hit the window next to my precious 2 year old daughter, shattering it in an instant.

Navigating off the freeway and into a safe area to park is somewhat of a blur in my mind, though I remember making at least one turn without being fully aware of whether the intersection was safe to enter.

Upon stopping and viewing remains of the window, I prepared for the worst as I opened the rear door.

And much to my surprise, though there was a substantial amount of glass on the floor, my sweet daughter was 100% unharmed by the experience.

I fought the urge to cry. My oldest daughter, a 9 year old, is old enough to understand the implications of what had just happened, and she started sobbing.

Before too long, we arranged a fix via the insurance company, and I had the fun of watching my husband man up, pull on a work glove, and knock out the rest of the glass as he rigged a solution to get us on the road again. And then, as I had my iPhone in my palm while trying to find an app to distract the kids just a few moments longer, my husband walked by and brushed my palm with his elbow, knocking it to the ground in a pile of broken glass, scratching the back of the phone but thankfully, not the display.

An incident that could have been so much worse, had the glass hit my sweet daughter’s face, neck, arms or hands, ended with merely scratches to my phone – to the back, no less – and with no true injuries to speak of.

I look at those scratches, and I am reminded of the miracle we experienced.

Glory to God!

From that perspective, I can live with a scratched iPhone, know what I mean?


How to Write a Great Blog Post Using Stories

Using a story as part of your work how to write a great blog post can happen one of two ways.  Often it’s a matter of finding a story that illustrates a specific point you’re trying to make and telling the story in a way that is compelling and not just self glorifying.

But on the other hand – sometimes something profound happens, and in reflecting on the event, you notice certain lessons or themes emerge that are related to the valuable content you provide your readers on a regular basis.

When this happens – it can be magical.  It’s usually the result of having written over time, and it usually happens more often after you’ve written regularly.  Sometimes it happens daily, sometimes every few days. But the point is this – the more you create great blog content for your readers, the more you begin training yourself to notice these moments in your day. The moments that are ripe with the possibility of providing benefit for your readers if written in a compelling way.

The best way how to write a great blog post using stories is to pay attention.  Make a note to help you remember to write about them later (if you’re not able to write about them right away). The more often you develop the habit of writing about them, the more likely you’ll be to notice them in the future. It’s a cycle, really.

You’ll want to make sure that if you’re including information about other people that either they approve or you’ve kept the information vague enough so that you’re not embarrassing anyone now or in the future (especially if it’s about your kids). If you’re a mom blogger, especially, it’s important to know what your boundaries are when it comes to that.

What kinds of stories do you like to use in your blog posts and content marketing? Leave a comment – I love to hear from you!

The Zen of Creating a Kick-Ass Blog: How to Write Better Blogs

Curious – what’s on your to-do list today?


If you’re like most bloggers or online marketers, it’s probably a mix – writing and promoting. You’re trying to come up with your next great idea – or maybe a bunch of them- and at the same time learn the social media marketing tips you need for your content to just maybe get shared (we won’t even hope for going viral any more). Maybe somewhere in there you’ll scan the internet for a quick tip on how to write better blogs. Most likely, though, that won’t even cross your mind.

Because you don’t have any time. Because you’re freakishly busy!  You’re focused on getting “enough” content out there “regularly enough?” And at the same time, you’re desperately trying to figure out the secret of what to say in 140 characters or less to get more retweets, how to phrase your Facebook updates to get more likes, and what the secret is to getting more +1’s on Google Plus.

I’m here to tell you that if that’s become your focus as a blogger, you’ve missed the boat.

And by simplifying your list of “must-do’s,” you can actually end up attracting more readers to your blog or website.  It’s almost Zen-like, really.

How to Write Better Blogs

If you truly want the kind of traffic that defines you as a “serious” blogger, you can cut the crazy, frantic marketing activity and do just one simple thing.

Learn how to write better blogs.

That’s it.

Corbett Barr of Think Traffic calls it “Writing Epic Shit.”  Apologies aside to anyone bothered by a 4-letter Anglo-Saxon colloquial term, but it’s the best advice I can give you about writing a blog as well.

Discover what it is in your niche that will really move people. Inspire people. Give them what they need to go forth and create epic stuff in their own businesses and lives. Give your readers content that is truly amazing – content that creates so much value they can’t believe you’re giving this stuff away for free. This is the secret for how to write better blogs, my friend.

And they’ll sing your praises from here to the end of the Twitterverse.

Why Learning How to Write Better Blogs Works

Here’s the thing. If you haven’t taken the time to learn how to write better blogs, how to create some truly kick-ass content, figuring out how to share it won’t really do a thing for you.

Sure – you’ll get a few of your followers dutifully sharing, since you’ve all agreed to share each others’ content.

But other than that – no matter how much promotion you do, it’s not going to help your traffic if your content simply sucks.

Think about your favorite blogs – do they have to ask you to share their content, or do you find yourself wanting to pass it along?  Some of the most popular bloggers there are have become that way for one reason alone – they create amazing content that people want to promote for them.

Creating amazing content means that you are creating content that in one way or another changes your readers’ lives. That’s it. Whether it’s short (think Seth Godin) or longer content, make it unforgettable.

How to Write Unforgettable Blogs

1.  Share personal experiences

There’s power in stories. People love to read them, and they tend to remember them more than dry factual content. Illustrate your point with a powerful story, and you’ve taken a step toward creating truly epic content.

2.     Get a life

If your life is spent totally in front of your computer writing about your life, your well will run dry. That’s not a Zen saying, by the way, I just made that up. It means that you’ll run out of things to say if you’re just relying on your own past experiences and you aren’t actively living a rich life. Make sure you’re reading in your field, and living a life with a variety of experiences – this is the fuel for being inspired to write better blogs write amazing blog content. If you’re doing amazing things, you’re more likely to be able to write amazing things as well.

3. Take your time

Blogging is that thing we all like to do as quickly as possible. Sometimes I’m guilty of it too – I know I write well, so I try to write quickly since I have a host of other income generating activities to do.

It’s a bad way to save time, though. The marketing power of epic content is so strong that cheating yourself here is the blogger’s equivalent of being penny wise and pound foolish.

Question:  What are you doing to blog better and create amazing content?  Leave a comment below!

A Mom Blogger Meets A Manly Blogger!

This weekend I had the delightful experience of meeting a fellow blogger – though one much more well known than I am for sure.

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Brett McKay of The Art of Manliness came to Seal Beach, CA, for a book signing event at the Tankfarm and Co. flagship store located there. And while attending an event about a blog dedicated to all things manly with 4 small children (including a 2 year old and an 11 month old) while my husband was away for work might seem a bit incongruous, it was a wholly fun and rewarding experience for all of us, young’uns included.

The men and women who came for the event (book signing, manly haircuts and free beer to boot) were amazing in their kindness toward me as I attempted to keep my four small people from melting down with the long wait in line. It’s as if they were indeed motivated by an internal code that invited a kind of respectfulness and chivalry that are often absent in trying situations these days.

And for the record – not only is Brett an insightful writer, but he’s every bit the consummate gentleman. He stood to greet each person who waited in line to meet him and took the time to converse with each one, getting to know each person as an individual before signing his or her book. I’ve been to a number of book signings in the past, and hands down, Brett has been my favorite author to meet for his ability to be truly present with each person he met, just as engaged with the last as with the first.

As background, my husband and I simultaneously discovered Brett’s blog and podcast about 6 weeks ago, though for very different reasons.  Carl found it organically – he has an interest in history, virtue, and discovering authentic masculinity. Brett’s podcast, blog, and books indeed cover those topics. And with over 100,000 subscribers, it’s clearly a topic that resonates with many readers.

My discovery of the blog was less pure in intent – I went looking for blogs related to personal development to scout out some potential guest blogging opportunities, and when I found this one, I just couldn’t stop reading!

A Mom Blogger at a Manly Booksigning?

Let me say – while it’s about manliness, The Art of Manliness is absolutely a great read for anyone interested on discussions of what it means to be manly – or womanly – in today’s world.  While my own worldview is shaped by my identity as a Christian woman, I admit that I was pleased to discover that the Art of Manliness does not rely on religious materials as the foundation for the discussion on manliness and masculine virtues.  It offers as an example men like Teddy Roosevelt, perhaps the last manly hero America has had. But because it doesn’t rely on religious examples, its premise can be discussed with much less emotional charge than might otherwise happen.

Admittedly, the experience of meeting Brett and exploring the blog that he and his wife write has me thinking about being a woman, and how I might explore the art of womanhood in writing. My 9 year old daughter asked as much when she wondered why there isn’t an “Art of Womanhood” blog.

It’s a subject that largely gets ignored in secular settings.  On one hand, from a Christian perspective, the woman in Proverbs 31 is often held up as an example. On the other hand, from a secular perspective, there’s a mythical idea of a superwoman who juggles career and kids flawlessly, and outsources much of the domestic sphere (child rearing, homemaking/cooking, and care of the home).

There are a number of resources for learning some of the skills of domestic life and feminine appearance, from HGTV to Cosmopolitan. In a way – this is but a caricature of womanhood, a gross exaggeration of a single part. Because while these explore some of the skills of womanhood, neither approach is an exploration of the essence of womanhood – the interior life of woman.

I think the subject is avoided because on a cultural level, we’re largely uncomfortable with the divergent opinions on the subject. Exploring any one idea of womanhood seems to be too challenging, too threatening for many in our popular culture. Somehow, even though differing opinions on manliness are certainly as plentiful, discussing these ideas isn’t as wrought with fear as it is when we discuss what it is to be a woman.

With respect to womanhood – there’s a polarity – you’re either a traditionalist/conservative or you’re a feminist/liberal. And ne’er the twain shall meet. And the discussion of the interior essence of womanhood ends there.

And in my mind, I believe our society has lost something vital as a result.

It’s an interesting time to be mulling the thought of reflecting on womanhood as I’m in the process of rebranding my blog. With having partnered with Liz from Assist Social Media to provide full service content marketing and social media services, I’m shifting my blog focus to more personal and reflective pieces. It’s very likely that as a result of having discovered the Art of Manliness, I’ll include a category sharing what I’m learning and thinking about the art of authentic womanhood as it has been historically expressed and as our society, in my mind, sorely needs today.

I love it when something I read causes me to think deeply and examine my own values. It’s ironic – and fun – that it’s such a well-written blog on the Art of Manliness that has done so. I’m so grateful to have had the chance to meet Brett, and I look forward to being a fan of his and his wife’s for years to come.

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